Can you actually love your career (or is that BS)?


“Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life.”

Are you nodding? Or is your BS-o-Meter blaring?

Honestly, I’m somewhere in the middle. Like most oversimplified quotes dubiously attributed to Confucius, the truth is in the nuance.

This has been the mission of my coaching practice since the beginning:

Design a career you love ✨

And because my worst fear is sounding like a snake oil salesperson, I spend a lot of time unpacking what “love” actually means in the context of work.

Because doing work you love doesn’t guarantee fair pay, or shield you from mundane-to-excruciating tasks. Because loving (and overly identifying with) your work can fast-track burnout. Because the hope that your perfectionism and people-pleasing will magically disappear once you find “work you love” is a mirage.

And perhaps most importantly: because the concept of “love” puts the burden on you, instead of questioning the systems that make work so soul-sucking in the first place.

A career you love is one you intentionally choose ✨

The most valuable thing folks get from career coaching is agency within these messy systems.

Yes, my clients land dream jobs, start businesses, and pivot to better roles.

Yes, my clients carve out more time and energy for health, relationships, and passion projects.

But the biggest win is understanding themselves more deeply—their desires, needs, and Achilles’ heels—and unpacking not just the systems, but their relationships to them. So they can move forward with clarity and power. Not just in this next step, but for the rest of their career.

“The world seems more full of possibility. I’m in control of my destiny.”
—Engineer & Writer

“I landed a job I enjoy, where I feel fulfilled and motivated every day.”
—Leader at IBM

“The best investment I’ve made for my career.”
—Engineer & Educator

“Grace was an invaluable guide during a major transition in my career.”
—Strategy & Operations Leader

“Grace helped me find the confidence to make a career pivot.”
—Project Manager to Business Owner

“I’m grateful for a career that’s exciting, purposeful, and right for me.”
—Education to Design

Selfishly, I want you to love your career! Because when passionate powerhouses like you move through the world with agency and energy, you launch products, lead movements, and create art that pushes the world forward. Yes, even in #LateStageCapitalism.

True love for your career starts here ✨

You don’t have to keep spinning or figure it out alone.

The first step is a free 30-minute video call. We’ll unpack what you want, what’s in your way, and how to move forward.

This chat is all about exploring what’s best for you. No “pitch slap,” I promise. If it feels like a fit, we’ll book a follow-up to discuss working together.

Onward!
Grace

Grace Fabian Career Coaching

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